tissue theory

I went for a camp at janda baik, bentong, Pahang last friday (28 Nov). It was a nice and marvellous camp to gather all Tunku Scholars for the first team building camp. It was fun and we get to know more and more Tunku Scholars as we had "Introduce my friend" segment. ]

Saturday, during lunch time and our funny Kelvin Lo aka motomoto came out with a lecture of "tissue theory". Handful of us joined the lecture as we are curious about the theory also! Well, it's meant for guys to win after a girl's heart. There are 3 principles in the theory. Here goes...

Principle 1.

First impression. Guys must give a very best first impression for the girls as according to him. For an instance, the guy hold an umbrella for the girl under the rain while sending her back. Giving rose for the girl is also not a bad example though some of the girls don't like roses.

Principle 2.

Prepare your weapon. It's not the weapon for "war". Fyi, "War" means a couple's fight. Weapon here means anything that can provide pleasure for her. Example, while the girl is eating curry crab, eventually her fingers will be dirtied with all the curry sauces. The weapon for this case is tissue papers for her to wipe off the stain on her fingers. For raining case, umbrella is your so-called weapon!

Principle 3.

Timing. It's the most crucial part to determine your 'success' even you are well equipped with the first two principles. Let's take back the curry crab story. When you provide the tissue, you don't provide before she is eating the crab but it's after she dirtied her fingers. Same goes to the umbrella example, you don't offer the umbrella before it rains but when rains. Get the point?

That's the end of the lecture.

thoughts : are we suppose to apply such principles whenever we, the guys, are chasing after the girls? Is there any necessarity to be so kind to girls? Yes and no. It depends who is the girl, some noxious gals are a big no no cause it's not worth it, but for rather happy to treat those who are nice and friendly. Some said girls are like waves, there are high and low moment for them and they are expecting guys to understand and please them. When the guys didn't try to understand them, they are saying guys are insensitive towards them. Last words, do you guys agree with "men are from mars, women are from Venus"?

an event's comment

i joint an event a few months before as a normal working committee. Eventually, I didn't carry my tasks very well and the event's director wasn't satisfy me enough and didn't produce me a cert for my involvement. Sounds like it's my bad right, but right after the event, I helped to cleared up all the rubbish and moved some of the properties to another storage place. At least, I done my part to contribute to the event itself, to me.

thoughts:

I'm not awfully want for the cert but then, as an event director, do you actually have to be so stern regarding this matter? I had friends that didn't do any of the tasks, but then went for the appreciation dinner and got the cert. Wth! For companies, are you looking for someone like the event director's characteristic? Comment : utterly useless, blur case plus lousy management of working committee.

town community

i was having supper that time when i came across this scenario that all of us might encounter before. A cat approached us and one my friend pretended like nothing happened.

thoughts:

Is this the ways we should treat someone that needs our help? What is your reaction whenever you are the person who needs attention and help from others? If others ignoring you, how would you feel?